This is a digital collage I did a few weeks ago. Because of the size I wanted it, I opted for a custom mat at Michaels. Afterward it was put into a ready made 11x14 frame.Jane Birkin is a model and musician who was popular in the 60s. Her style is still imitated by celebrities today, for example Nicole Richie. Anyway, I too love her look. As Nicole would say, "that's hot".
When I went to Michaels for a frame, the woman at the counter kept saying she wanted to make it "pop". And kept pulling out this 90s mat that was - no joke - "dusty mauve". I said "yikes" in my head a few times, but tried to be nice and explain what I wanted. But no matter how clear I thought I was, or how I kept saying what "look" I was going for. Out came the "dusty mauve".I started to resign myself to ending up with this hideous color, out of fear of hurting someone's feelings or going off like a crazy person. My friend Dian is very good at taking charge of situations, with the right amount of assertation, and also without being rude. So remembering this, I stopped and just reached over and grabbed a white mat and asked for some "retro" colored frames to be brought over.
I removed the "dusty mauve", replaced it with the white museum mat and instantly, I had the look I wanted. I tried out some of the retro colored frames, in blue, orange and green. I settled on the green. The same "dusty mauve" lady, who had walked away, came back over and said "oh, that looks great!" "gosh, I would have never thought to do that."
Lesson, learned. It's okay to keep trying to get what you want, even if it means stopping to take a breath, refocus and try another approach. And you might even help someone who is stuck in the 90s to find their way out. :)





